Renowned Nollywood actor, Richard Mofe-Damijo, affectionately known as RMD, has opened up about the difficulties faced by male celebrities in maintaining faithfulness in their marriages. The 62-year-old actor shared his candid thoughts during a recent appearance on the Teju Babyface Deep Dive Podcast, shedding light on the unique challenges that entertainers confront in their relationships.
RMD, a seasoned actor with an illustrious career spanning decades, highlighted the inherent vulnerability of male entertainers to external temptations. He emphasized that the nature of their profession often puts them in the spotlight, making them susceptible targets for admirers.
During the podcast interview, RMD stated, “It’s very hard for entertainers to be faithful in marriage because of the line of work that we are in. Every one of us that is married are the target. Look at how women are; how can you escape it? Women are like Delilah; they are like Jezebel; they prepare.”
He drew a parallel between the tactics of certain individuals seeking to disrupt marriages and the historical figures Delilah and Jezebel, who, according to biblical accounts, used their wiles to manipulate men. RMD suggested that these tactics aimed at destabilizing the core of a family unit by targeting the head of the household, much like a general being taken down on a battlefield.
“The only way the enemy can perpetrate their real intention is to constantly aim at the image of God or the symbol of authority in any home. Then shut it down. It’s like shooting a general on the battlefield. You drop him, and then the battalion scatters. Their mission is to take down the head of the family,” RMD elaborated.
He further emphasized the importance of mutual understanding between spouses in combating such intrusions, stating, “So, it’s very difficult [to be faithful]. You have to get to the point where your wife understands what she is up against as well. Because if your wife is not up to speed on what she is up against, then you would be left open.”
RMD’s insights underscore the need for couples, especially those in the limelight, to work together to safeguard their relationships from potential threats. He highlighted the necessity of harmonious partnerships to create a barrier against external influences and maintain marital fidelity.
The actor’s candid discussion sheds light on a topic seldom addressed in the public domain, offering a glimpse into the unique challenges faced by male celebrities in the pursuit of lasting and faithful marriages.
